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	<description>Ending The Silence of Child Abuse</description>
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		<title>Behold the Turtle</title>
		<link>http://www.boysdonttell.com/2013/05/behold-the-turtle/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 23:53:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I began my healing by telling my story to a therapist. In hindsight I realize that took real courage. I began shedding my shame a piece at a time. Once the walls built by my shame started coming down, I began feeling lots of emotions. In letting go of my fear, I found courage to tell &#8230; <a class="read-excerpt" href="http://www.boysdonttell.com/2013/05/behold-the-turtle/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#187;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Refilling the Empty Heart</title>
		<link>http://www.boysdonttell.com/2013/04/refilling-the-empty-heart/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Apr 2013 20:58:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[About eight years ago some friends invited my wife and I to go to an artist’s studio sale. I had never done anything like that before and I’ve got to admit I was intimidated. I was in awe walking through a husband and wife’s artist studio looking at paintings and clay sculptures they made with &#8230; <a class="read-excerpt" href="http://www.boysdonttell.com/2013/04/refilling-the-empty-heart/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#187;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>In Relationship with Your Perpetrator</title>
		<link>http://www.boysdonttell.com/2013/04/in-relationship-with-your-perpetrator/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Apr 2013 22:06:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;This is probably the most complicated and least understood aspect of child sex abuse. 90 percent of all perpetrators are known to the victims, with 30 – 40 percent coming from the victim’s immediate family and only 10 percent strangers.&#8221; “In my mind, I believed that I had brought on the abuse, leaving the real offender off &#8230; <a class="read-excerpt" href="http://www.boysdonttell.com/2013/04/in-relationship-with-your-perpetrator/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#187;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Says Who?</title>
		<link>http://www.boysdonttell.com/2013/03/says-who/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Mar 2013 18:27:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is dedicated to all those survivors of sexual or physical violence as a child that continue to fight to “break out,&#8221; of their now self imposed box. Alcoholics Anonymous says to just take it one day at a time. I think there are some of us that need to break it down more than &#8230; <a class="read-excerpt" href="http://www.boysdonttell.com/2013/03/says-who/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#187;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Scientists Declare Pedophilia is Natural Orientation</title>
		<link>http://www.boysdonttell.com/2013/03/scientists-declare-pedophilia-is-natural-orientation/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Mar 2013 16:11:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>randy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Wonderful and Wacky World of Science just got a lot less wonderful and a whole lot more wacky: Pedophilia is a sexual orientation. Really? So according to this article in the LA Times, now pedophilia should stand beside heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual etc. as the way we are born. I am pretty sure I will &#8230; <a class="read-excerpt" href="http://www.boysdonttell.com/2013/03/scientists-declare-pedophilia-is-natural-orientation/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#187;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Lost and Found</title>
		<link>http://www.boysdonttell.com/2013/02/lost-and-found/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Feb 2013 17:32:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Lost and Found “The control issues I developed kept me from being a successful parent, partner to my wife, employee and friend to others. I was driven by fear (which I thought was strength) to control everything and everybody around me, and I guess I thought that using alcohol and drugs would ease the pain inside. Just getting through the day &#8230; <a class="read-excerpt" href="http://www.boysdonttell.com/2013/02/lost-and-found/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#187;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Let’s Try this Again</title>
		<link>http://www.boysdonttell.com/2013/02/lets-try-this-again/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Feb 2013 19:05:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A week ago I posted an article I wrote on standing up for victims and breaking free from the auto response of defending the accused. That part went over okay. The part that people got stuck on and pushed back hard on was this: “So here is a new reality check: We must find a &#8230; <a class="read-excerpt" href="http://www.boysdonttell.com/2013/02/lets-try-this-again/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#187;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>A Little Perspective Please</title>
		<link>http://www.boysdonttell.com/2013/01/a-little-perspective-please/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Jan 2013 18:12:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Randy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I belong to a group in Southern Oregon called CAN, Child Abuse Network. We meet monthly to discuss child abuse, the work each of us are doing and what we can do together to help end this horrific epidemic. An outcome of one of our meetings was to take a public stand on community responsibility &#8230; <a class="read-excerpt" href="http://www.boysdonttell.com/2013/01/a-little-perspective-please/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#187;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>97-99 Percent*</title>
		<link>http://www.boysdonttell.com/2012/11/97-99-percent/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Nov 2012 21:45:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>randy</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.boysdonttell.com/?p=1164</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[If someone lies to you 97 times out of 100 will you believe them next time? Most people would say no. In the children’s tale The Boy Who Cried Wolf, no one believed the boy after just two times lying. The third time the boy cried wolf, no one came to rescue him in his &#8230; <a class="read-excerpt" href="http://www.boysdonttell.com/2012/11/97-99-percent/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#187;</span></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Maintaining a Relationship With One&#8217;s Rapist</title>
		<link>http://www.boysdonttell.com/2012/11/maintaining-a-relationship-with-ones-rapist/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Nov 2012 22:00:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Randy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am reposting this article I first published over a year ago. It was written by someone I know only as Benny who posted this on a site called Rape is Never Justified. It has brought more comments from people in similar circumstances who just have no guide in navigating the complexities of having feelings &#8230; <a class="read-excerpt" href="http://www.boysdonttell.com/2012/11/maintaining-a-relationship-with-ones-rapist/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#187;</span></a>]]></description>
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